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Saturday, May 19, 2012
Rumours.
10:39 PM
Gossip.
1. Rumor or talk of a personal, sensational, or intimate nature.
2. A person who habitually spreads intimate or private rumors or facts.
Gossiping is somewhat like procreating or self preservation - It is human nature. On the surface there is nothing really wrong with that. It helps liven up conversations and keeps things from getting boring at a party. Everyone does it, whether they'd like to admit it or not.
Guys do not gossip? That's a whole bunch of bull. Guys gossip just as much as us girls, they just do not realize that they are doing it. I mean honestly, who spends hours on end talking about nothing but themselves? As narcissistic as you are, you are bound to run out of things to boast about yourself, which is when you start talking about other people.
Let me get one thing straight, yes I do gossip. All the time, I have to admit. I am not condemning people who gossip.
HOWEVER.
There is a difference between harmless exchanging of comments and imparting of intimate information someone has ENTRUSTED you to keep to yourself. Not only you announce to the world things that should have otherwise been kept under wraps, you sensationalize and twist my words to suit your story, or what you think actually happened. I don't know if you said what you said because you were under the influence of alcohol, but either way, that just shows that you are not to be trusted.
You may not realize the severity of your mindless gossiping, but it actually does hurt people and/or tarnishes their reputation. Rumours spread fast, so don't assume that just because you are telling it to a few people, it won't get back to me and/or the other parties involved. You may not have done this on purpose but I am terribly disappointed in you.
Trust. Everyone demands it, yet refuse to live up to what is expected of them. With great power comes great responsibility. I hope you guys are aware of what I'm getting at here.
Maybe I am at fault myself. Maybe I open up too easily. Maybe it really is better being a closed book.
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